I was trying to make a woocommerce store and it brought up my site forworseorworst. I totally had forgot I documented all that I did. Wow fast forward from 2017 to 2023. Divorce was final 2019. I still have to deal with him and he got even worse after the divorce.
he is supposed to follow the parenting plan we signed in the divorce decree. He even asked the judge for a extra night Wednesdays to be extended to overnight every other week. Since he has not followed that parenting plan one single week. He has not kept a reliable parenting/visitation schedule at all. But yet I to make sure our child is dressed packed and ready each time noted and agreed as his time…. what a joke the laws are surrounding this…. How I could be held accountable as breaking the law of I appear to be denying or interfering with ” his times”. But yet he can lie and call with excuses and no show on a regular basis. There should be consequences for the noncustodial when they don’t do their part as agreed.
This ” man” has show what he is capable of. He is 1000000% self centered. He made the choice to start up drinking. In a manner I had never seen from him. He apparently was drinking day in day out… He become a complete in and out absent parent. I hate him for it.
He had saturated himself with alcohol so much he claimed he needed a medical detox. He made the biggest deal out of all of this. Damandijg people’s support …. Detox followed by in patient rehab in a state across the nation…. he gets back and still didn’t keep a reliable schedule. . Really just seemed like thr same shit to me. Not even a year later he creates about round or chaos claims he needed yet again another detox! Followed by another round of in patient rehab then a out patient….. all of this has been hell for th people forced to be around it all. The lies excuses complete lack of parenting such a untrustworthy toxic irresponsible human being. So the last round of his rehabs was Oct 2022. Drumroll. He had been drinking again.. like click work he downplayd it and he loves to blame or put it on me somehow.. he truly effects me still and it feels evil. The worst isn’t him putting everything on me. It affects my ability to work full times hours… It effects my money in many ways. It effects my ability to my best self. Worse than all that is the negative impacts it has on our child. This guy doesn’t show any real concern how serious this all is. He will say things he thinks people want to hear but WE HAVE ALL learned he is not a man of his word not even a small percent of time. He is one of those self centered untrustworthy emotional vampires. I don’t know how to handle all this. I have maybe not made all the best ways to handle this. But I am doing the best I can with my childs best interest at heart. My main thing has been not keeping all this anger inside or around me at all. So I have been very nice in most our interactions. But I am seeing he is taking this as their is still ” hope” he a totally said this the other day… Again.
so I don’t see a win win here.
Why he can’t grow up and match his age somewhat 47 years old. Just be a responsible decent parent.
keep your times with the child! Make a home for him with you! Stop calling to drink. Stop making the same mistakes and not learning form them!!
Stop always expecting me to handle everything. Just do these things. Everything would’ve been so much more healthy. But nope
this is him to the core. He has some of the worst personality traits a human can have.
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